Welcome to ILUME
Walking with you every step of the journey
Therapeutic community for families struggling with:
*RAD (Reactive Attachment Disorder)
*Challenging Behaviors
*Trauma and Adoption
Characteristic behaviors
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Superficially engaging and charming
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Detached and unresponsive behavior
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Lack of ability to give and receive affection
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Preoccupied and/or defiant behavior
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Severe issues with authority
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Preoccupation with fire and violence
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Persistent nonsense questions & chatter
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Stealing
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No impulse controls (frequent hyperactive behavior)
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Abnormal eating and speech patterns
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Inappropriately demanding & clingy
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Triangulation of adults
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Manipulation
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Presumptive entitlement issues
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Indiscriminately affectionate and familiar behavior towards strangers
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Cruelty to animals
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Lack of eye contact
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Destructive to self and others (accident prone)
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Lying and/or false allegations
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Learning lags and disorders
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Lack of cause and effect thinking
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Apparent lack of conscience
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Poor peer relationships
Signs in Infants
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Inappropriate use of crying
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Not settling when needs are met
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Overreacting or startling to touch, sound and/or light
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Listlessness with no medical reason (depression)
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Limited holding onto or reaching for caregiver
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Lack of appropriate stranger anxiety
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Minimal interest in interaction with people
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Not smiling back or not responding to smiles or baby talk
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Not following human movement with their eyes
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Lack of eye contact
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Self-abusive behavior (head banging, self biting, hair pulling...)
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Resistance to physical touch (stiffness when hugged)